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Why me?

4/28/2017

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Life is full of opportunities to re-evaluate--ourselves, situations, relationships...
One potential limitation that can happen is through making judgments. We can judge our performance, feelings, capability, worthiness or that of others. We may even judge life, G-d, whether or not something is fair or even possible.
Henry Ford said: "If you believe you can, or you believe you can't, you're right." The same wisdom is mirrored in many other places. One is in the work on Epigenetics by Dr. Bruce Lipton, author of The Biology of Belief, Unleashing the Power of the Subconscious Mind, and several other works. He shows that it isn't our genes that control our health, rather our beliefs and emotions that control our genes. It is also mirrored in the work of Michael J. Lincoln, PhD, who is quoted on this site (see Why Body Code & Irlen?).
The bottom line is that virtually every day, and even many, many times a day, we reinforce or make judgments which limit us.  They operate beneath the surface, often leaving vague impressions or tinging our experiences in subtle ways.  
I noticed just such an effect  recently on my visit to one of my children in another country.  I spent wonderful time with a dear grandson who had a very rough start in life. As a result, he was angry, rebellious, duplicitous and not at all engaging in deep relationships. 
While my opportunities to engage with him were greatly curtailed for a long time, I did have the opportunity to have him work a few times with one of my teachers during a brief period.  In the short term, little changed. He was polite, but not really trusting or attached.
Then, a couple of years ago, when I was being certified in the Body Code, he gave me permission to work on him as one of the people whose sessions I submitted.  He told me what he wanted me to focus on. During the sessions many, many emotions came up--often inherited--and were released.  
Gradually, he started to shift. He became more open to his father, even expressing positive emotions. In the past two years, their relationship has blossomed and he has become sincerely engaging, trusting and attached. He has started on a very positive life path, succeeding and excelling in ways never dreamed possible, and is positively charming and delightful to be with. We stayed together during my visit and enjoyed some day trips together, just the two of us. Every minute was wonderful!
What happened to allow such a totally fantastic transformation? He no longer had the negative beliefs about himself, his family or life which had plagued him (with good reason) earlier. This allowed his spirit to flourish and his great goodness and potential to take the lead.
Although I have many, many wonderful stories about people with whom I have worked, this one is the closest to my heart, and I thank you for letting me share it with you.
What would you like to have change? Why wait--you'll never get the same time back to do it again.
Imagine what life might be like believing you CAN!


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12/6/2017 02:47:29 am

I totally agree with this! Sometimes, we limit ourselves just because we think something is beyond our reach. We always doubt our capability to do something, thus, losing our chance to achieve our goals in life. I have always believed on Napoleon's famous quote which is: “Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve.” Success lies on our positive outlook in life.

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3/14/2018 12:32:26 pm

I read your post and would like to comment the following. You state that his "inherited" emotions started to change. However, emotions can not be inherited. Firs educate yourself then publish. Understandably, your aim is to make money from people but you are just pathetic. "We do not inherit sadness, anger, happiness, jealousy, or other emotions. The capacity for emotion is inherent in our genetic makeup. Hence, our ability to express emotion is hereditary. There is some thought that the inability to express emotion is hereditary."

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12/18/2018 10:47:35 pm

No one knows their destiny. All we know is that we have enjoyed every moment and treasure it forever. The things you dream about during when you were young will really not happen eventually, well, that is for some and some are too lucky that they always keep in mind that they want it and get it. Everyday is full of opportunities. The problem with us is we are being tempted easily and that hinders the fact that we can do more and do better. Many were confused about the difference of productivity to activity.

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1/3/2019 07:58:53 pm

When I was young, I used to have lots of opportunities. Believe it or not, there are more opportunities when we were young. Many people nowadays are being confused between the things they usually do on a daily basis. That is when insanity being confused by others. The decision always depends on the person who have the opportunity. Sometimes, even if we wish to have it, we cannot handle it when it is already in front of us. The only enemy we have in that situation is ourselves. We limit our self to learn more and experience more.

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3/15/2019 02:25:14 am

I have been in a situation in where I just wanted to die and release my anger to the world. I guess being like that is selfish, but normal at times. There are times that you really know your capacity, but chooses to think twice because they are afraid to fail someone. I know it took a lot of effort and understandings in order to be a better person. Believing something that you can do is really a good traits that everyone must acquire.

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